Do looks matter in a relationship..??
Are looks really that important to women? Can an out of shape or unattractive man get a pretty woman to fall for him? Do ugly guys have no hope of getting pretty women? I know ugly but successful rock stars, movie stars, professional athletes, etc. get beautiful women all the time, but what about me? I’m just an average guy, can I really learn to sexually attract women who are out of my league? If you find or have found yourself asking these very same kinds of questions, then this will be the most exciting article you will ever read!
If you take the time to survey enough women, you will find that looks is usually third or fourth on their list of the qualities that they find most sexually attractive in men. What is usually the number one trait that women find sexually attractive in men? Confidence. What is confidence? Confidence is nothing more than doing what you know how to do in a given situation, and doing it to the best of your ability. Repetition is the mother of skill. You should do the things that you are not very good at over and over until you can do them well. That will build your confidence and make you feel confident. Why? In action breeds fear and doubt. Action breeds confidence and courage. Women are sexually attracted to men who have the confidence and courage to go after what they want, DESPITE the fact it probably scares the hell out of them and they might not succeed. Confident men take action in spite of their fears.
Their confidence and persisting without exception towards their goals and dreams communicates to women that they are also confident enough and would persist without exception in their love for their women. These men have the strength to break through the barriers that stand in the way of their success. Women assume these men have the strength to love, break through and penetrate the emotional barriers women put up when they are protecting their hearts. A man who penetrates life with his sheer will and conviction will also have the strength to penetrate his woman emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually.
Men who are timid and too afraid to pursue what they really want in life, are perceived as being too weak to break through their woman’s emotional barriers, and open them up emotionally when they have shut down emotionally. Women simply assume that these men do not have what it takes to properly love and support their women or be a good stable provider if they were to have children with them. From a biological perspective, weak and timid men will produce weak and timid offspring that will be unsuccessful at finding a mate and therefore, unsuccessful at passing their genes on to the next generation. When a man approaches a woman, but inside he does not feel he is worthy enough for her, she has no choice but to respond in agreement with his belief and physiology that communicates unworthiness.
Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. Women who you think are drop dead gorgeous, I may find average, ugly, unattractive or uninteresting. Like attracts like. Human beings are naturally attracted to other human beings who have a similar facial structure. Therefore, none of us find exactly the same characteristics sexually attractive in others. We are all completely unique and have different interests and body types that we find attractive. The key is to decide what you really want. What your HEART compels you to desire or create. If it’s what your heart truly wants, you will feel a burning desire inside to be it, or to become it. Anything other than what your heart wants is a false mental projection of your mind. If you chase or do what you think you should instead of what you FEEL you should, you are making a conscious choice to destroy any chance you have for true happiness, success and fulfillment. Choose wisely!
This article is being written on demand of a friend who is little confused.. Hope she gets over her confusion after reading this.. GOOD LUCK!!