Your task is not to seek for Love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it. As painful as the scar of first love may seem, it will heal. Just follow these 10 steps and you’ll definitely feel better and get over your first love too. You might have heard of love and the happy feelings associated with it. But you can’t really experience the blissful happiness of warm love until you’re in love with someone. Your first love may have started like a fairytale, but before you knew it, one bad thing may have led to another, and then another. Until both of you have no choice but to part ways.
If you’ve just broken up with your first [...]
I was probably in denial for over a year after my break up, but I was so deep in denial that I had perfected the art of denying that my denial even existed!! So working with denial and acceptance can be a slippery business.
I offer these tips as starting points for getting curious about your confidence after a breakup. They aren’t measurements or goals, but rather ways of noticing how you’re doing, where you’ve slid off course, and give you a sense of how to get back to center. How you’re doing is neither “good” nor “bad.” It’s just the way things are with you today and tomorrow will be different.
1) Work with Denial & Acceptance: The best medicine I have [...]