It’s not just about whether you love him. It is a whole bunch of other stuff that determines whether he’s the one you should marry. This isn’t a simple matter of picking what to wear for a party. This is about picking your life partner, and contrary to what hopeless romantics out there may tell you, you must be extremely picky, extremely ready and never ever listen to your heart 100%. Your brain needs to play a role in this decision too, or you’ll end up like millions of women out there who get divorced within the first few years of their marriage.
Most of the time, it’s not that they didn’t love their ex-husbands, it’s just that they had no idea what they were getting [...]